The Greatest Seduction Secret is NOT Covert Hypnosis
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I know there are a lot of men who want to learn persuasion, conversational hypnosis for dating and seduction. I know because I get emails and comments every other day asking about how the persuasion patterns can be used for getting girls.
I have mixed emotions about teaching persuasion and dating. On one hand I know that for the most part there is nothing harmful in teaching this and when used properly it not only enhances your ability to attract the object of your desire, but it also makes her experience more exciting, pleasurable and fun for her, because you will be able to talk in a way that makes her feel things that no man has ever been able to make her feel.
When I got the hang of this and began using it in dating I quickly learned that women love a man who talks with hypnotic language. They say I love the way you talk, or the way you talk is turning me on, or wow you really know how to turn a girl on, or the way you talk is so sexy.
I don’t know if it is because women love a man who knows how to control his voice, or women love a man who talks about more deep and interesting things, or perhaps it is that a big part of it is that women want to talk about sex, they just don’t want to talk about it the same way guys do. Women seem to enjoy talking about sex in a vague and ambiguous way.
Persuasion and hypnotic language skills will allow you to become very smooth in your language so that you can flirt using hypnotic language in a way that is exactly that, you are obviously talking about attraction, sex, and desire but only using metaphors and stories.
It’s pretty freakin cool!
On the other hand, I know the down side to men using these hypnotic language patterns for attraction an even seduction is that they fall into the trap of relying only on covert hypnosis to attract women. I am sorry but that would be really lame. Unfortunately I feel like too many men who want to learn this type of persuasion fall into this category.
If covert persuasion is all you have in your dating arsenal then you are going to be in for a rude awakening. If you are insecure, have a low self esteem and or are using these patterns just to get laid it will back fire. I have seen so many guys fall into this trap who approach persuasion and dating like this and it just enhances their insecurities, and they become social weirdos.
No offense to my man over at the covert hypnosis blog, especially since he is learning the hard way just as I did, but he gives a good example of how to make yourself look like a chode using covert hypnosis to get girls.
I encourage you to use these patterns to generate attraction in a way that is with her best interests in mind. If you ever for one second feel like you need to use it in order to get a girl then I suggest you stop take a long look at yourself and do some work on yourself so that you are coming from a place of abundance rather than scarcity.
I have never needed used any of these patterns alone to get a women to like me. In fact most of the time I use them is when I already have her back at my place to enhance her sexual pleasure. Why? Because I don’t need persuasion to get laid. I take that back, I DO use persuasion to get laid, but I use persuasion only to persuade myself that I am the type of man that women would be thrilled to meet, date, and have a sexual relationship with.
When those are the thoughts that dominate your mind meeting women is easy.
I will have to write a whole other post about how to attract people sexually using vibe and energy you can start by reading my post on Psychic Influence to start, also read the Hypnotic Power of Congruence to learn how the most powerful persuasion artists are the ones who know all the persuasion skills with authenticity.
I am successful with the art of persuasion because I find the patterns fun and I love hypnotic language, and I know they make women feel good. In order to make women feel good you first though you must feel good about yourself. And as cheesy as it sounds it is a truth that I am proud to share with you. Attract women with your energy, vibe, and confidence, and when she is attracted use the language patterns to make her feel fantastic.
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3 Responses to “The Greatest Seduction Secret is NOT Covert Hypnosis”
By M!hai on Jun 14, 2008 | Reply
Most people are fascinated when they hear words like : covert, secret, hidden, forbidden, and that’s why most of them expect results easily.
By Bill on Jun 14, 2008 | Reply
Indeed marketing is to blame for the many misconceptions in this industry. People like Ross Jeffries who have guarantees like “you don’t get laid I don’t get paid” once you learn what his system really is about underneath all the flamboyant marketing is a very holistic approach to seduction, but I guess it’s the controversial marketing that is needed to get people’s attention.
-Bill
By Ercan on Jun 19, 2008 | Reply
hi Bill ,
I just want to thank you for sensible advice on persuasion for getting laid.This is why I read your articals as they are not just mechanical ” how to do ” s , also have SPIRIT . Keep up the good work .