Coffee With Bill: Spiritual Journey, Erotic Hypnosis, and Reloading The Persuasion Matrix

Written on August 6, 2008 – 7:07 pm | by Bill |

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“Sometimes you must risk all to find the truth.”  -Unknown

I wish I had some cool story about persuasion guys to share, like I went to study the forbidden secrets of covert hypnosis in the mountains with a grand master of persuasion and I am back to tell the tale.

I wish I had some killer article that I was working on to share with you guys, like how to influence someone without saying a word.

Nope, the reason for my absence was the need to go on a bit of a spiritual journey.

Some time back in June I would wake up in the morning and wonder if I am fulfilling my life purpose or not.

I guess it’s something we all go through at one point or another.

A little over a year ago I set a goal to have an apartment in Los Angeles that was so cool it would be the envy of all who entered.  I had an image in my mind of what I wanted it to look like. 

I thought it would make me happy.

And so I did it. I got my cool bachelor pad.  And whenever I had friends come over they were always telling me how cool my pad was.  I had expensive furniture, fancy paintings, and a huge television.

About a year of living there I began to get sick of my place, I realized that what I thought would make me happy did not make me happy at all.  I started to ponder what is happiness and what is purpose.

That’s when I stopped blogging, and that’s when I started feeling inspired to do something a little extreme.

 My friends all thought I was nuts for what I did next.

I threw away a lot of my possessions, books, clothing, paper work etc.  I even let go of some people in my life that I was holding onto, one of which was my hypnosis mentor.  I stopped studying persuasion even (naturally I kept all of my persuasion books just in case :-) )

I sold all of my furniture for pennies on the dollar on craigslist and moved out of my apartment. 

The crazier part is I had no idea of where I would be living next.

                                  Photo Credit:  Homeless Lego

I spent the entire month of July staying on friend’s couches, a hotel once in a while, and even slept in my car a few nights. 

Everything I owned I could pretty much fit in the trunk of my car.

I showered at the gym.

I was homeless.

And you know what; I can’t remember having such a fun and exciting month in the past 6 years!

Perhaps the adrenaline rush of not knowing where you will sleep at night gave me the enthusiasm for life that I needed.

-I am now in phenomenal shape.  I now get up every morning and go to the gym at 5:00 a.m. EVERY MORNING

-I was able to spend time in nature and learn more about the beautiful city I live in. 

-I have made so many new friends by being out and about all the time, and I have built stringer relationships with my current friends.

-I have a higher self esteem.

-I notice I am friendlier; chatting up conversations with strangers comes easy

-I learned I have a very very very artistic side, and I am going to start pursuing acting.

-To go out in public I used to have to wear the nicest clothes, and have my hair all greased up to be confident.  Now I usually wear just a simple t-shirt, jeans, and sneakers, and I feel so great.  And I notice women checking me out even more now.

-Speaking of women. I have met and had sexual relationships with more women this past months than I have had in the past three months.  Which is the hilarious part because obviously part of the reason for wanting my super cool pad was to attract women. And being homeless I met so many amazing and beautiful women.  Perhaps I have read too many pick up artist books.

I am having a blast, life is so good, and I feel like I was reborn, I feel 18 again, I feel amazing.  And great things are continuing to happen.  I haven’t figured out all of the secrets to The Universe yet, and I probably never will and I am okay with that.

Basically I let go of all the things that I thought would make me happy and let in an avalanche of amazing life experiences that bring me great joy. I believe because I let go of so many virtual attachments I was able to get closer to what I am truly attached to myself.  I feel a stronger sense of self; I feel I understand who I am a bit better now.

So where does this leave Persuasion Artist?

Good question, I do not know.

We’ll learn together.

I want to get back in the flow of writing, and even as I am typing this I must say it does feel good to be blogging again.  I don’t know how or when things will return back to the way they were, or if things will ever be the same again.

I am pondering the idea of beginning a new blog with a little different spin on persuasion and hypnotic language.

All I can say is that the seduction and pick up guys will love it, but it wouldn’t be a seduction blog per se.  What I have been studying in my time off is how to give women incredible pleasure using hypnosis, language, psychology, and some other interesting stuff.

It’s interesting you guys know me as Bill the guy who teaches persuasion and I can be quite persuasive in sales.  But my passion, what I love more than anything in the world is using this material to make women feel incredible pleasure and that’s what I really want to blog about.

This would be material not necessarily to get women to sleep with you (although it could be used in that way), but if you are already in a sexual relationship with someone this will allow you to make your lover feel things that no man would be able to make her feel.

Persuasion and seduction would not be the right words because I look at it as a gift I can give a women rather than something I do to get from women.

I was thinking of doing a blog for guys on how to use this material to better pleasure your partner(s) or I will make a blog for women using hypnotic story telling to create stories that arouse, borderline erotica.  I actually am meeting with an erotic novelist to entertain a possible collaboration.

I have wanted to do this since I used hypnotic story telling to make one of my lovers’ orgasm. She asked me to record what I was saying so she could listen to it over and over again.

I will most likely use a Penn name for both, no Bill Alexander is not my real name either ;-)

So I will either run one to three blogs expanding on the ideas of Persuasion Artist and stepping into the realm of sexuality and hypnosis OR I will keep all this sexy juicy info to myself, give my lovers earth shattering pleasure using their own minds and my voice as an aphrodisiac, and disappear into the shadows of the blogosphere never to be seen from again as I pursue a career as an artist.

So now you know where my crazy little head is at and what I am working on, as you can see there a number of possibilities.

I love blogging so unplugging completely from the blogging matrix is unlikely, but based on last month I like leaving things open ended it makes life a bit more exciting.
 

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  1. 2 Responses to “Coffee With Bill: Spiritual Journey, Erotic Hypnosis, and Reloading The Persuasion Matrix”

  2. By Nightmajic on Aug 7, 2008 | Reply

    I’m reminded of your post on June 12, 2008, ” Let’s Play a Game Persuasion is B.S. Just be Yourself and Mind F*cks.”

    At the beginning of your post you mentioned how a friend told you to “just be yourself.” Of course, “which self?” was a counter-point, how other people use persuasion to persuade against persuasionists was another, and then, in the end, that it was “not about being yourself. It’s about being your best self.”

    Intellectually, these are all true and valid points. But wouldn’t it be a frightening place if we became so sensitive to suggestions, that we couldn’t take a good one when we get it? For myself, it’s easy to let my mind take charge and direct my life, and of course, intellectually, it always seems like the best idea. But it seems like direction can’t come only from the head.

    I do find it interesting, however, that something in you became aware of what might be seen as a lack of inner congruence and realized that in order to function on the level of what you wished for yourself, something had to change.

    “Your Best Self” wasn’t a static, unchanging and stationary point, something with all the ‘necessary’ accoutrements. It sounds like your experienced brought something much more authentic to the surface, something dynamic, essential and much more free. Maybe it’s NOT about being your “best” self, since that implies a belief that we must remain in a fragmented state of identiy, having to choose one of many ’selves’ which most suits our needs, but more about really being that ONE self which lies deeper, closer to the heart. But that takes work. A friend of mine once said, “Hypnosis can make a better man, but work can make a new one.”

    I, personally, have enjoyed your blog very much. I never really intended to use it to sell better, pick up chicks or sway the masses. I do, however, intend to become a practicing hypnotist and NLPer, and am interested in becoming the best facilitator to personal growth that I can. Because of that, I am interested in the power behind these techniques.

    If we can use this power to bring happiness, success and pleasure to those around us, I think we should. And it really seems to be about reciprocal maintenance. One hand washes the other. By enabling and satisfying the women in our lives, we are strengthening bonds with the very people who can return the support we need in order to continue with our work.

    I do very much look forward to whatever you have to offer.

  3. By HowardStern on Aug 19, 2008 | Reply

    I am beginning to think that you misspell words on purpose

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Welcome To Persuasion Artist

Hello, my name is Bill "Persuasion Artist" Alexander. I am an avid student of persuasion and Influence.

I have a strong fascination for the mind, and I am passionate about the words, actions, and energies that influence the minds of others.

This is a blog of my insights on capturing and leading the imaginations of others using psychology, hypnosis, NLP, suggestion, and subconscious communication. I’ve been called a genius and I’ve been called dangerous.

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